Reply To: Wife/Mother sitting at head of shabbos table? Home › Forums › Decaffeinated Coffee › Wife/Mother sitting at head of shabbos table? › Reply To: Wife/Mother sitting at head of shabbos table? August 6, 2012 2:09 am at 2:09 am #890724 yitayningwutParticipant I think we pasken like Shammai in your case.