Sam2, I risk looking like a fool for not having the Rema in front of me, but does he really suggest that by saying GS to someone of the opposite gender I invite strangers to impugn my shem shayamim and convict me of all sorts of aveirot?
RebRY, you’ve done just that in a big way. If I sorted out your dangling pronouns correctly, my saying GS is a solicitation and those who say GS back have accepted it. So if I as a male say GS to another male, is it a solicitation to to’eva?