Put your shopping lists down, people are not buildings to be inspected over and given approval before a purchase!!!!
Age differences have and will always exists in married life, do not put some one out of the running before you meet them, if a woman is serious about marriage and a family than try going out with an older guy, be he divorced or widowed. You may even discover someone with a degree of depth and maturity who appreciates you as you are. With age ( sometimes) comes wisdom.