It is statements like that which aren’t helpful. Correct, in an ideal world you are correct, but this world is far from ideal. We live in the era before moshiach where Chutzpa is rampant. An era where many only care about themselves.if only one party is interested in making the marriage work, and the other party couldn’t care less whether or not the spouse stays, do we tell the party that care to stay in an unhappy marriage with an apathetic partner? To we show the children that divorce is such a taboo that we suffer to avoid it?
Correct, we try to fix problems’ not run away from them, but what about those problems which can no longer be fixed?
No, I am not pro divorce, but things aren’t as black and white as you make it seem.