Ready Now,
This will be my last post in this thread(with Gods help).This world is not black and white. It is full of grey. Not situation is the same for everyone. Blanket assertions like the ones you were making have no purpose, unless your purpose was to hurt others.
You were probably very lucky in the fact that you grew up in a house full of shalom bais. But unfortunately, not all homes are like that. Sometimes couples fight, and thats normal. But sometimes the fighting becomes extreme, affecting both the husband, wife and especially the kids. It is at this point that a couple must make a cheshbon. They must weigh the benefits of staying together and negatives of splitting up. And sometimes the divorce is the more logical and reasonable answer to constant fighting in the home
Anecdotally, my parents divorce was the best thing that ever happened to me. My house went from a war zone to a peaceful, pleasant place to live. Sure it was hard, but everyday of my life I thank my mother and father for going for the divorce.
My message to you is to not generalize situations where you have no idea of the specifics. Every situation has its ins and outs that you have no idea about. So how about offering support instead of criticizing other peoples moves.