My answer obviously has no weight because I am not Gd nor am I a mental health professional, but I sure as heck Have a lot of anger towards this man. He went from jersey to Connecticut, murdered his mother, stole her guns and went to the elementary school guns blazing. There is a certain amount of planning and awareness that goes into something like that. He did not just one day snap and strangle the person next to him in an out of body experience. Hashem is the only who truly knows and will give due punishment ( or not), but I don’t think anyone needs to feel guilty about hating this rasha.
