Torah613Torah -“I’m all for men looking for intelligence, of course, but someone who looks only for intelligence, exclusive of Yiras Shamayim etc, is just as bad as someone who looks for money or looks imho.”
Whether it’s supposed to be this way or not – it is! This isn’t utopia. The 3 things, even from the most Chashuva families, look for nowadays is – money, looks, and/or Yichus. The Gemorrah mentions looks and Yichus and I guess money took the place of Yiras Shomayim.