Reply To: I'm having problems with my skirt length

Cinderella,

I completely understand why it’s wrong. I know how imp. It is to be Tznius and how it can be detrimental to a girls/young woman’s/womans inner and outer soul. It’s not even the feeling of being pretty (not sure where you got that from to begin with…). It’s the fact that I feel uncomfortable wearing the calf length skirts. I either wear very long skirts or I wear skirts above my knee. I want to wear Tznuis skirts very badly but when I attempt to put it on I change my mind last minute. They don’t feel nor do they look the same.

Your right it is immature, that’s why it’s hard for me to do it. Same way a girl who is of marriage age needs to mature herself in order to deeply devote herself to dating. It’s tough. I’m legitimately asking and seeking advice. I know the Halacha. I need my parents to understand how hard this is for me and that I am trying. I have thrown out skirts that are considered too tight and fitting. It’s so unfortunate but when going on dates guys seem to have appealed to me not by just the company but also by the skirt. That is one reason as to why I threw them out ( besides the material being non- Tnius) ….sry went off tangent