Reply To: Do boys really have the upper hand in shidduchim? Home › Forums › Shidduchim › Do boys really have the upper hand in shidduchim? › Reply To: Do boys really have the upper hand in shidduchim? July 14, 2013 6:52 pm at 6:52 pm #966392 ? DaasYochid ?Participant DY – Girls can insist on that too if they wanted. I meant successfully.