Reply To: Do boys really have the upper hand in shidduchim? Home › Forums › Shidduchim › Do boys really have the upper hand in shidduchim? › Reply To: Do boys really have the upper hand in shidduchim? July 18, 2013 4:07 pm at 4:07 pm #966444 OneOfManyParticipant also, why are you speaking on behalf of all women.