Reply To: To the-art-of-moi: (Sorry if I spelled it wrong)

Look, we understand your busy and cant respond to each of us. Plus its a good thing the mods do not let you say evrrything, I wish they were as nice as that with me when I go and blab my life story here, then later I need to take the time and beg them to delete it…..

Look, everyo ne these days needs therapy, there are organazations and also self therapy, hotlines and more. It seems like you have the web to yourself, there is so much help you can find on it! Not just bad things!!!!

Im sorry you are struggling with semf control on the internet. Everyone has their battles, even though it isnt mine it is probobly as hard for you as something else is for me.

Mod 27 you do really care!!!! It also helps to have a positive attitude! Even myself slip up on this many times, but I pick myself up again and again. Thats what you gotta do, anytime you notice you are slacking off or falling in something, stop, take a deep breath, and continue where you were (this really works with paying attention while davening!)

You don’t owe us anything, yes I was worried, and I’m your friend and was scared something had happened,, but you don’t even know me in real life…unfortunately

Even if you did, you have a right not what or to tell ANYONE here or in real life. Yes the person may be angry (in real life, not here, this is like the internet….sorry to say its not reality) but you have your rights. You have a right to tell everyone your life story and your feelings….

You wrote also that you hoped no one saw you while crying in davening. If you weree embaressed to cry, that is sad, sad for the girls in your class whom do not understand that Hashem is yoyr best friend and you need a relashenship with him. Your relashenship with Hashem is private, just like you dont tell the whole class what you do with _____@ friend and that you had a sleepover with _____, you say it is none of their biusness, (in a kind way “Its between me and her, we’d appreciate it if you didn’t ask about our relashenship”) because it is not the girls who is asking’s relashenship but yours with ______ friend and it has truly nothing to do with anyone who asks. So to your relashenshil with Hashem. If anyone asks why you cried, ask “Don’t YOU cry to our father in heaven? Don’t YOU have a relashenship with him??”

Thatll get them to be quiet and feel a little guilty and give them some mussar…